While in AZ recently, at a local restaurant, I noticed how the Caucasian male middle aged manager approached tables to ask them if things were up to par. I noticed he went to the tables with White patrons and walked by my mom at least 5 times never once stopping to ask. She was dressed casually and has a easygoing demeanor. Some people never catch on she is actually a retired white collar professional. As we were leaving, he then walked to a table with a Mexican family and asked how things were. I thought to myself, some things change slowly or dont at all. He did not notice my close obserevation, In fact, he at one point was dancing to the music in an attempt to connect with his waiters on staff. I silently sent him light and prayed his mind would open and he would see people equally.
So my final comment is I am very aware of how I am perceived depending on how I am dressed. When I am dressed in jewels and a dress shirt, I get such respect I chuckle. When I am dressed casually I get none at all, most people feel I am younger than I am due to my energy. I gently let them know I am much older and by the tone of my voice and the language I use (formal with manners) they look surprised and feel foolish. It will a take awhile for the world to realize Indigo/Crystals appear younger and act more mature despite outward appearances. I hope the old energy of prejudice and classism moves out quickly. As usual I am open to hearing your stories and comments. Has this happened recently to you. How did you handle it.

Everything turns out perfectly and our world beautifies as we create our destinies. Power comes forth and it is peaceful.
My Higher self and Inner child are in harmony and are a powerful force to be reckoned with.
My power is peaceful is yours?
I have been blogging less since I have been drawing and writing the Andy the Indigo Child series. Hope to be back soon. Will post pics and affirmations, websites as I see them. Check back. :)

If you are looking for quality reading for an Indigo/Crystal child or spiritual children check out my Ebooks on www.Govindaguidance. Each book covers a different concept. A healthy family is covered in Book 1. Book 2 is about Crystals reminds Andy the value of meditation. Book 3 is about Andy and Rachel's friends the Crystal friends. Book 4 is about Rachels and her relationship with Fairies.
Book 5 is about Andy and his helpful angels. Book 6 is about the Ascended masters. Book 7 is about the children meeting Archangels. Book 8 is about meeting the world's Goddesses.

I discovered a blogspot called I saw your nanny. You can report bad babysitters/nannies to Isawyournanny@aol.com. Many people report and others frequent the site. My first thought was how heartbreaking but when I heard the people trying to get the parents to call/email them, I realized what a godsend this was. If you suspect your nanny or are unsure what goes on, tell your friends/neighbors about this site. Indifferent, rude, uncaring nannies beware, you will be busted much sooner than you think!

Awhile back, I ran an ad in the National Enquirer for my psychic services. Bad idea. Every person in Georgia called with no access to a computer and didn't want to pay. I was ripped off five times that week by Georgians. Once by a woman in Pennsylvania who claimed she didn't have a credit card I could run.
My customers pay by Paypal, credit card, check or cash.
Everyone was casting spells and there was a lot of innappropriate feelings for people like crushes on married doctors or relationships with criminals and the woman wondering why the man wasn't behaving. I was baffled and shocked.
Today this AM, my phone had received a phone call from North Carolina with no message of course. I called back and the man explained he wanted me to ok his wife's idea to have sex with her adopted son in his 30's. The wife put a closet in the son's room with her clothes. How ridiculous, what a naive way to excuse your bad behavior, I thought to myself as he told me this info.
The man on the phone felt his marriage was strong and could take it. He thought it was a good idea. Any of my colleagues hearing this would warn me right away not to take the case and to advise against this! I did so.
He seemed surprised I didnt want the case. I explained I could foresee bad consequences in the future for all three if this continued. I gently explained
This is an example of social mores being different in states across America.

Have a sister? Then chances are you had it easier during teen years according to a recent study in the August issue of Journal of Family Psychology. Researchers found having a sister meant having a confidante, it protected against delinquency and depression. Having a brother isn't a bad thing, it just guarantee this type of intimacy, Padilla-Walker noted.
Birth order and age between siblings didn't matter or make a difference statistically in this study.
   I have found this to be true in families in my clinical experience well. One of the questions I ask during the interview is how close are you to your brothers and sisters? Why? Was their normal rivalry or was there definite favoritism that caused divisions in the family. This is a fascinating and bothersome topic to me. I have been on both side, both the favored one and the hated one for no reason on my part, I should add. This is case with many of my clients as well who report who such unfair, cruel behavior I wonder why we don't test parents before releasing the children to them at the hospital at birth. On the supporting side of supportive family, having one buffers the hardest life experiences from disability to death of loved ones, to mental illness and physical disabilities.
Truly having a caring family member period is a huge blessing. Everyone of my clients has commented at least once in session-"Who's going to care when I die or I fail? So and so", naming a sibling and 95% its a sister. So call your sister tonight or email and tell how much you appreciate her love in your life. Till next time, Dr Lily out.

According to an Australian study, the Western diet is linked to higher incidence of ADHD.
The researchers looked at the diets of 1,800 teens involved in an ongoing long-term health study. They classified the participants' diets into two categories, "Western" and "Healthy," with a "Healthy Diet" being one high in fresh fruit and vegetables, whole grains, and fish.
Wendy Oddy, one of the study authors, summarized the findings (via Science Daily): "We found a diet high in the Western pattern of foods was associated with more than double the risk of having an ADHD diagnosis compared with a diet low in the Western pattern, after adjusting for numerous other social and family influences ... having an ADHD diagnosis was associated with a diet high in takeaway foods, processed meats, red meat, high fat dairy products, and confectionery." The researcher believed the lack of Omega 3 fatty acid affected the brain negatively.
Lastly the article asks poignantly, at what point, does the medical establishment and FDA ask themselves is diet, pesticides and food coloring -what are they and how they are working for us? Bringing you the latest in psychology topics, till next time, Dr. Lily out.

An Indigo child aged 12 wrote to me today asking me if she was losing her mind. She described psychic and medium abilities. She was a prior client.
I explained calmly that these abilities were very normal and very common now that the number of Indigo/Crystal children have increased. Spiritual people by droves have developed on their path and now have deepened intuitive abilities. She wrote back relieved  to know it was normal, I believed her and there was help available. Meaning I would talk to her  parents regarding the differences between psychotic symptoms and psychic abilities. I felt so good as I realized I was yet again the go to person in my field locally for these questions thanks to all my social media efforts. So keep sending your questions and comments and I applaud your efforts to better yourself and maintain a relationship with the Divine.

I am reminded of how important this is as recently, it has been the theme with families. Parents come in distressed with the choices their child makes. Children are mad, their parents dismiss the choice as stupid, silly or evil. Parents undersestimate their power and children underestimate their draining effects on parents when they are not cooperating.
I recently managed to make a teenager and her conservative parents compromise so she could live with them and still have freedom. Its amazing how quick people jump to threats when they feel threatened.
In this case, the parents threatened to throw the child out. Luckily we avoided that.
Next we have a lady who is frazzled from trying to talk sense to a child. Child reports she is being talked to nicely or having things explained until recently. So there I have to mediate who says what and how it is said. If your child makes a religious choice and you dont agree and they are in their teens, please take heart, many change their mind again at 18 or 21. Instead of acting like their 16 year old behavior is permanent, realize your child like the times, will change and you may see a new picture if you look again.
Till next time.

This concept is a hot word nowadays. Intention refers to being deliberate, being resolute, having a goal and reaching it. Wayne Dyer uses it to discuss happiness. Mallika Chopra has a whole company revolving around this concept, implying every project of hers is inherently successful, which is a powerful thing to do.
Today I set an intention involving budget and achieving a gift goal for a family member and thanks to my focus, I did just that. I managed to stick to a low expenditure, got rid of an item that was going to be a problem piece of jewelry for me and in exchange got what I wanted. Confused? Let me explain. I ordered red agate beads and when I received them they were bigger than I thought they'd be and shipping it back was costly. Determined to save my money, I took them to the Gemfaire and managed to exchange it for a piece of Black Tourmaline which I wanted and had put off buying for several months! My intention worked brilliantly. I discuss this so many of clients would understand how common and frequent your intention needs to be set and how it influences your self esteem. I was determined to succeed and when I did, I felt great. Had I not, I still would have felt good, knowing I tried hard to save and Archangel Ariel, the angel of money management would be impressed and might bless me with a money miracle! So keep telling yourself what you hope to accomplish and you, most likely will since your focus is there. If not, you can feel good about your effort. Hope the point is clear and you have a good Sunday night. Till next time.